Go home then.....

So....i'm at his house.  I had a gig last night got back at almost 4 am so I stayed at his place.  I brought my tea I drink and I want to heat it up.  I say do you have a pot?  He says can you heat it in the microwave?  I says I'm trying not to use the microwave.....if you have a pot I will get it and clean it and put it back.  He says....well sounds like you need to go home then.  Made me feel bad for a second....but I love myself and i  can handle it......he can be such a bear :(