Au Natural.......

I have cut off all of my hair and I am officially natural, chem free. Why did I do it? I have not had a relaxer since Feb. and my hairdresser would not perm me and I started to play with my natural hair....I liked it. So I decided to go ahead and try it out. I read somewhere that everyone should try out their natural hair at least once in their lives. I am 37 and turning 38 on October 18th, so I figured, why not. I am not sure if I like it yet....the verdict is still out. I am going to work with it for the next two weeks and see how it does for me. I will post a pic soon, though I don't think anyone is following my blog, maybe I will post the pic for me. Yeah, learning to love me.

My Sister Aundreta D. C. Farris

She is wonderful she is.......adventurous, kind, loving, sensitive, spoiled, worldly, intelligent, wife, sister, auntie, daughter, crazy, zany, one of a kind, natural, expressive, independent, clever, cool, demiurgic, deviceful, fertile, formative, gifted, hip, ingenious, innovational, innovative, innovatory, inspired, inventive, leading-edge, original, originative, productive, prolific, stimulating, visionary, way out, aesthetic, creative, cultivated, cultured, decorative, dramatic, elegant, exquisite, fine, graceful, grand, harmonious, ideal, imaginative, ardent, devoted, eager, enamored, fanatical, hysterical, keen, mad, passionate, wild, zealous....my sister!

Bump it

when i was in high school, that was the saying, "bump it". yeah, i know, makes no sense, but hey, bump it...i am no longer focusing on love.. it is what it is and ain't what it ain't...bump it. i will have to just come back here every once in a while and really try my hand at blogging, because i am no good at it, and since no one is reading this anyway...bump it. (lol) i am laughing to myself. well, i am going to end this now, and just, well, just nothing.

My first wordle!

LIAR LIAR

WHY DO MEN LIE?

Love stinks....Yeah Yeah...

Now, don't get me wrong. Love is a wonderful thing, family, friends, God, but I am talking about the love between a man and a woman. I have needs as a woman, one is that I talk to my boyfriend everyday. Be it to just say hi, or hey babe, im going out with the boys, or hey can't talk long, just wanted to see how your day went...SOMETHING! But no, I don't get that, and it sucks. I am not getting what I need out of this relationship. Is it me? Do I require too much? Time and attention, and show me that you love me. SHOW ME! Take me out to dinner, check my tires for air, wash my car, or take out my trash when you come to visit, something...come on...geez! Thats why I say love stinks, or maybe its just not love. Its just two people taking up each others time until that one comes along. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH....whew...thats funny. That ONE...is there a such thing...I just don't know what I believe anymore. I am bothered, its 12 am and no call all day...jackass....

L O V E

how do you know that you love someone? i mean, is it a feeling? is it that you never stop thinking of them? is it because the sex is good? is sex even a part of it? what if it isnt? can you love someone that you dont really know or do you have to really know someone to feel love for them? what about those people who said they fell in love at first sight? is that really possible? how do you know that the person that you are with is THAT person or not? How do you know that the one is THE one? what does all of that mean? how do you know?